Have you ever wanted to give up… you know… to throw in the towel, and say, I quit? Many of us, at one time or another, most likely can answer that question with a clear YES. I’m not talking about a major walking away of life; but about a day or two when dark clouds change the horizon.
If any living being has reason to do just that this season, it is the bluebird community in our yard. They have been harassed, bullied, thrown out of their home… many times.
This spring has been exceptionally hard for one particular blue couple. Mockingbirds go after them like Kawasaki bombers; the notorious house sparrow and their number one enemy have stolen their nest box several times. I have literally destroyed the tangled mess of sparrow architecture five times in this nesting box. (House sparrows are not a protected specie, and I can do this!) Finally, a neat nest was constructed by a hopeful couple, only to be harassed by the house wren, another problem enemy. Both the house sparrow and the house wren are known for piercing bluebird eggs and physically removing them from the nest. Just last week, a neighbor found broken shells of all four of her recently laid eggs at the base of the feeder pole; the nest was empty. Can you imagine?
Or these predators will attack and kill the gentle blue birds and build a messy nest over the neat cup shaped home of the bluebird. Oh, the possibilities of torment are endless.
Would you be tempted to give up? I think I would…
As a monitor for bluebird boxes, I was especially overjoyed this week when I found a new nest and the first egg laid in our garden. Now to wait and see if this couple will be able to complete this cycle of a new family. Often, much activity of bullying birds forces the bluebirds to abandon the home and leave.
But for today, they haven’t given up!
As I have watched the struggles of these beautiful winged creatures in my own yard, I have pondered on reasons for giving up. It appears to be a common malady among humans. One site I checked says 92% of us give up on our dreams, our plans; it’s often easier to walk away. Did you know that young Walt Disney was fired from his job… the reason given: “You lack imagination, and have no good ideas.” What if he had walked away? Mickey Mouse would have never been a part of our lives!!
Our strong will to survive health conditions, estranged relationships financial issues… eventually can slip, and we lose focus. When busyness and activity, even good activity, muffles whispers of peace and hope, and we’re too sad, too tired, too… anything, and we almost give up.
I am currently much involved, both emotionally and physically with a young international mother (see my next blog… same kind of different as me ...). Perhaps, it is the hopelessness and despair I see in her journey that has threatened to detour me from a focused hope. My Polly Anna nature has failed me!
“But I am like an olive tree flourishing in the house of God; I trust in God’s unfailing love forever and ever… in Your name I will hope. for Your name is good (Psalm 52:8). I wondered why David, the writer of this psalm, affirmed he was like an olive tree.
Olive trees are extremely tough.; they’re incredibly strong, producing fruit for hundreds of years. They can handle almost any situation… drought, sub zero temperatures, frost, fire. Their roots are so strong they can regrow even when it seems like they’ve been totally decimated. Even when the tree has been destroyed, if the roots are intact, the olive tree clings to life and will rise above the soil once again. (Olive Grove Oundle)
David was harassed by fierce enemies; he often was in hiding for his life. And he did, in fact, lament the perils he found himself… many times (Psalm 69, especially), but ultimately, he would return to his hope in the living God. Even as the king of Israel, David was not immune to dark days, but he always returned to the knowledge that God was near. He desperately desired to stand strong as the olive tree.
I, too, am not immune to shadows of the “what ifs” of a day. So I must… I have to listen… to the promises of God’s presence. ‘The Lord is near to all who call on Him, to all who call on Him in truth” (Psalm 145:18). “Do not be afraid, for I am with you…” (Isaiah 43:5).
I just now took this picture; there has been a new egg each day for the last four days. They have completed this part of their journey. This pair of blue birds did not give up!!!